TRAINING DAY

First and foremost we here at Ain't That 'Bout A Bitch would like to send out a sincere apology to anyone who would consider themselves a follower or reader of our work. We've been going through some things behind the scenes and it seems that everything is about to get back in order. So for our following we are about to back bigger and better than ever before. So be on the lookout! I'm not trying be DJ Khaled and claim "We the Best!" or that "We Global!" truth be told we will be happy when can shout out "We Local!", but as previously stated and posted we are taking the proper steps to expand. Now back to the regular scheduled programing.

It always amazes me how little people know about themselves, it truly baffles me. This is mostly because people are quick to tell you about someone else or stick they head in other's business. Half the time they in someone else business cause they don't have any of their own business, the other half is attempting to escape their own personal business.

You train people how to treat you. If a friend calls you and you don't ever answer the phone or call back then you are training them not to call you. Your actions are saying "I'll call you when I want to speak." So we can't really blame the friends for not keeping in touch like you feel they should. How does this pertain to ladies you ask? Allow me to explain.

While in a relationship a woman will (many people aren't going to like the lingo used here but...) train their man how to treat them. When you decide to allow unacceptable actions occur without consequences and repercussions then you are telling you man that everything is fine in the relationship. If you don't want him to grope you in public, then nip it in the bud. If you don't want him hanging out all hours of the night to come to your home and make your bed smell like sweat, smoke, and beers then stop answering the phone and door.

Most men will attempt to get away with anything they can, all men will at least think about it. There won't be much to think about though if you guide his mindset in the right direction.

So don't complain why your man treats you a certain way, wonder why you trained him to do you such.